Posts Tagged ‘Gratification’
Debt kills!
Once I overheard a man saying debt kills, but then I realized that debt does not kill a man once and for all, but it slays him everyday and every time. Even though nowadays theres considerable awareness about debt, people are still becoming a prey to this monster. Knowingly and unknowingly they get tangled in this knot, where liberation becomes next to impossible.
Reports confirm that individuals spend their fun-filled years of their life by just paying their school and college debts.
But then you just cant bring this debt system to a halt because, there are times when these debts prove to be really handy.
So we have to let the debts survive, in such a way that it does not hinder our growth.
We can divide people categorically, where one category lives, not to live but to save. People tend on saving and thus they miss all the enjoyments and comfort in their life, but this lucky set will not get themselves into debt. The next category of people are called as the achievers and these people strive to establish themselves and in the process they get in to debts, but the achiever never slows down he works hard and pays his debts, and after paying all his debts only he will realize that he lost all his valuable years only for his future gratification. The final category are called the lavish spenders, these people become an ideal prey to debt. They spend easily by swiping their plastic cards and in the end they are left only with dismay. Analyze yourself to identify your personal character and the category you belong.
Now the million dollar question is how are we going to overcome our debts?, once you find yourself in debt it is better to stop overspending. Do not pile up all your responsibilities just because it is bitter, some day you have to face it, why not today? So start planning your finances wisely, if possible get help from a knowledgeable person. When ever you feel tempted to buy something (which is not really necessary!) just think of the black days you have to face in debts. This small remainder will impede you, from buying.
Life after debt!
We have no aim of frightening you, but the fact is that life after debt would be very different. There are many who become frustrated, as they have spent most of their years in the prison called debt. Debts are very capable of swallowing our happy lives and thus make us live as a corpse.
So really try to understand the negative aspects of debts, before you take up loans. And never postpone your payments; this is the first step that leads to debts. Apart from monetary obscurity, debtors have to face a lot social tribulations.
Sometimes people may find themselves in debts due to unavoidable situations, like divorce, death of the bread wining member in the family etc. do not fret, try hard and overcome the debt through your hard work.
Now if you realize that you are in debt, it is not too late, start planning now and try to defeat your debts. If faith can move mountains then surely faith and determinedness would dissolve your debts.
Constantly Planning to Get Out of Debt
Having a constant plan to get out of debt will help you keep your finances in order.
When you keep your focus on your debt and money situation, you are able to better control it.
Most advisors will tell you that you need to be debt free. Yes, that is the ultimate goal, but for many people, it isn’t exactly reality. There are situations, like buying a home, in which you have to accept debt.
There is good debt and bad debt. Good debt is debt you can afford and bad debt is debt you can’t afford. That’s all there is to it. If you can afford your mortgage, car payment and RV payments, then it is alright. If you can’t, then it isn’t good debt.
When it comes to credit cards, however, they are bad debt, regardless. You will eventually reach a point where you can’t afford them. That is almost guaranteed.
The key is to constantly work to paying off yoru debt. Start with your credit cards and high interest loans. Focus on paying off the cards with the highest interest rates to start with. This will save you money in the long run.
Once you have all of your credit cards and personal loans paid off, start working towards your autos and student loans. I like to focus on what has the lowest balance to pay off first. This helps you knock things off rather quickly — adding to your gratification. If everything is about equal in balance and interest rate, I pick the highest monthly payment.
When you pay off a high monthly payment loan, you free up more money to put towards the next debt.
When you have your cars and student loans paid off, the next thing you have is your mortgage. You can be working on your mortgage throughout the process as well. By adding as little as $100 a month to the average mortgage, you can knock several years and thousands of dollars off the mortgage.
That’s the overall game plan. But be aware that it can change.
For example, you may find that you are in a situation in which you must have a new, reliable vehicle. You don’t want to spend your emergency savings. The only debt you have is your mortgage. You are able to afford the monthly payments, yet plan to pay it off as quickly as possible. Then go ahead and finance a reasonably priced vehicle. Transportation is very important for work, school and other obligations.
What you must do is adapt your debt-reduction plan around the new car payment. Although you have added debt, it doesn’t mean that you still can’t work to be debt free.
Financial management is built around the idea that you must be flexible and able to adapt to the situation with smart choices. Too many people believe that there is a right way and a wrong way. That isn’t necessarily true.